katapult KDialog problem

Hi out there
I am having a problem with what seems to be any program that start K or KD I think they must be KDE programs, first up I get the message make sure dcopserver is running

I asked about this problem the other day I was ask for more info, to run dcopserver in terminal, I did nothing happened the 1st time I did it again and got the message that it was running so I thought it was just on of those things, but I realised that I started it the 1st time I typed it in ( bit slow lol)
so that is all good there I guess. If I try to run katapult again I get this message:

Will not save configuration.
Configuration file "/home/goof/.kde/share/config/katapultrc" not writable.
Configuration file "/home/goof/.kde/share/config/kdeglobals" not writable.
Please contact your system administrator.

I also asked about this question about 2 days ago. I am guessing that the 2 problems are related.

this was the help I received then
sudo chown user:user /home/****/.kde/share/config/katapaultrc

replace user with your name

I used my user name in the spots user:user and in ****
But it then get the message of: No such file or directory

How do I fix this problem?
nad how do I get dcopserver to run at startup
Look forward to your help
Regards Neil
please be kind still learning with longggggg way to go.